The Art of Cunnilingus Part 1

Overview

Engaging in cunnilingus is an emotionally satisfying experience for both lovers. However, you probably already know what a magical experience it is, and you'd rather get to the nitty-gritty. You want to make your lover cum so hard, she immediately expresses her undying love for you. Well, results may vary, but read on!

Many men have difficulty accepting a woman's genitalia. Freud thought this was because we are so hung up on our external genitalia, that men have an inherent difficulty with a woman's internal genitalia. Well, Freud also believed long cylindrical objects in dreams symbolized the male anatomy, while hollow compartments like ovens and boxes represented female anatomy. Freud also smoked 20 cigars a day, a practice that killed him. . . sometimes a cigar might just be a cigar, but if you want to make yours larger, then you need to visit VigRX to learn more.

The Female Anatomy

Begin by undressing and teasing your lover as you get comfortable. Leave the lights on, so you can see exactly what you are doing. Take a good look at what's between her legs. A woman's genitals are like fingerprints - every one of them is unique. Some clitorises are large, others small. Some women have large labia (outer lips), while others are tucked inside. Some are covered in thick foliage, while others are a well-manicured lawn (or a racing-stripe bikini wax).

Underneath the outer lips are the inner - AKA minor - lips. The inner lips are especially thin and sensitive, unlike their outer brethren (at least most women are not especially turned on by manipulating their labia). At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive clitoris, closing in under the clitoris and then coming back out to continue down to the bottom of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips, especially near the bottom.

The clitoris is usually the most important point of oral stimulation. In most women, the clitoris is the main pleasure-giving sexual organ. It is very similar to a man's penis - hermaphrodites are almost exclusively women with extremely large clitorises. The clitoris becomes erect when the woman is aroused - almost any touching, licking, and sucking of the clitoris leads to exceptionally good feelings for the woman.

Between the underside of the clitoris and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the vestibule, your second playground. Although the clitoris' hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding the obvious first place role of the clitoris, it's the vestibule and the entrance to the vagina where a lot of the action takes place.

Women usually feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clitoris. Some women enjoy a hard, rough stimulation right from the start, while others cannot stand the stimulation. The same is with men and their testicles - some men like rough play, others can't. Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be perfect after she's aroused. We also recommend that you enlarge your penis to give her the most pleasure you can.

Positions

Preferred positions for cunnilingus are numerous - lying, sitting, standing, kneeling, and any other that seems even remotely possible. To get a comfortable position, there are certain guidelines that usually help. She has to be able to spread her legs comfortably and hold them without straining her muscles. You should not be lying on top of her, crushing her, and vice-versa. She also needs to be able to put her hands on your head in order to pull it against her, and you MUST be able to make eye contact with her. You need to be in a position that won't hurt your back and/or neck, and you need to be able to comfortably place one or more fingers inside of her.

For example: she can recline comfortably against some pillows and watch you work. Place some pillow under her buttocks, so you don't have to crane your neck to get inside of her. This is probably one of the better positions. Another good one is for her to slide her hips to the edge of a bed, and then you can kneel on a blanket, cushion, or pillow on the floor.

Of course, there is also the 69 position. You both get to enjoy the pleasures of oral sex, but this position can lead to some problems. If the man is on the bottom, he may not particularly enjoy where his nose ends up (the anus), and the woman is in a less than ideal position for fellatio. When the woman is on the bottom, it is hard for the man to effectively stimulate the woman with his hands at the same time. Some things that help: place pillows under the head and pelvis of whoever is on the bottom. It makes it easier for both partners to give head.