Getting the Initiative

Are you one of those guys that think if maybe you just hang around in bars or clubs for long enough a woman will approach you? Well, slap yourself really hard and realize that you live in the real world. All of those guys who just sit around the bar or stand around off the dance floor go home night after night empty handed. This is your chance to go out and get those girls while your opposition is sitting on the sidelines.

Especially in a nightclub situation, don't be that guy standing and watching all of those beautiful women dancing and having fun. Seriously, don't be that guy - it's pathetic. All of those chumps looking around and waiting for something to happen, what are they thinking? In many circles, they are known as "death row," and believe me, you don't want to join this infamous group.

Realize that life is short, and you can't wait for that perfect girl to come up to you in the perfect situation when you fall in love at first sight and the trumpets sound triumphantly as you wisk her away to lands afar. Think about the next morning: you don't want to wake up with a monstrous headache remembering all of those beautiful girls you saw and did nothing about. Make this your motivation and take matters into your own hands.

Incidentally, for those cases where you just can't seem to snap out of your bad habit of just hanging at the bar and drinking one after another, consider a couple of things. One, take Chaser pills at the start of the evening to help stave off your hangover later. And two, even if you're not in the habit of overdrinking, get yourself a tiny breathalyzer-type device like Safe Drive Breathalyzer, which you use to test your own level of inebriation before you get behind the wheel.

Better yet, you can use the SafeDrive Breathalyzer to show a woman who's been drinking that she NEEDS you to take her home. Imagine this - you go up and demonstrate your concern for her safety, show her how the SafeDrive works, and then offer total proof in the little digital readout that she really must not drive. You'll be happy to take her, you say. Try it!