The Future of Sex Part 2
One of the first things you'll confront in your 20s is
figuring out what you're really looking for. While it's perfectly all
right to revel in fantasies about Charlize Theron and a can of Reddi-wip,
relationship experts generally agree that when you're after a commitment
rather than a one-night stand, a woman who "fits" you well is likely to be
a person rather like yourself: of a similar age, from a similar family,
with similar values. But that's one of the great things about your 20s -
it's the period when you're most likely to have the time and opportunity
to date a wide variety of women and find out whom you're most compatible
with. And while it can be difficult to meet prospective mates at any age,
guys in their 20s have an important advantage: Their lives are generally
less settled.
If you're in school, you meet new women in new classes
every term; if you're out in the world, chances are you'll change jobs and
addresses more often than older men. All these changes increase your
opportunities to hook up with someone.
If you're like most guys, by the time you reach your 30s,
you'll have entered into the world of career, marriage and parenthood.
These are the things most men want in life, and they can be quite
fulfilling. But along with monogamy and new responsibilities, you may face
new problems in the sack, particularly sexual boredom and loss of libido.
To men who felt perpetually horny throughout their teens
and 20s, it often comes as a shock in their 30s when libido begins to
flag. You no longer have just one thing on your mind, partly because your
hormones are calming down and partly because so many other concerns place
demands on your time and attention. Lovemaking must now compete with
career issues, bill payments, parenting responsibilities, hassles about
whose family to visit for Thanksgiving - all of which can leave you tired
and short on leisure time. Then, even when you manage to find the time,
sex still can feel routine compared to the wild flings of single life.
Many men in their 30s begin to investigate natural libido boosters and
sexual enhancement products, like
VigRX pills and
VigRX Oil or the new "patch" technology such as
MaxiDerm. There's also a big surge of interest recently in the
ability of Human Growth Hormone to retard aging and its effects,
particularly on muscle mass and the sexual organs. Though natural
Human Growth Hormone production decreases significantly in the
body after age 20, there is now a Growth Hormone Releaser on the market
GenF20 HGH that brings HGH levels back up to youthful levels. At
30-something, many men aren't ready to think "Viagra," yet they do want
something to restore some of the pizzazz of their younger years. Natural
products fit the bill and deliver appropriate results.
Most men in their 40s will begin to notice differences in
the quality of their erections. It may become increasingly difficult - for
some, almost impossible - to raise one from sex fantasies alone, and
direct touching of the genitals becomes increasingly essential (but who's
complaining, right?). Also, erections may not achieve the same rigidity as
before, and if fondling stops, they may soften or subside. There may also
be some loss of sensation: your skin will begin to thicken, growing less
sensitive, and nerve transmission will slow. Men in this age group are
also using the
HGH / Growth Hormone Releaser GenF20 HGH and
VigRX products, while others opt for the prescription medication
route. Fortunately, both physician's consultations and prescriptions are
now available online (www.AlbionDrugs.com), meaning that men can bypass
the embarrassment of a doctor's office visit for help in this area.
Men who are unaware that such changes are normal and
natural often become alarmed, convinced that this "erectile difficulty" is
the beginning of their sexual demise.
Luckily, that's not the case. "Mid-life erection changes
are not impotence," says Plaut. "They're a normal, predictable part of the
aging process and no cause for alarm." In fact, the less you worry about
erection changes, the less they're likely to affect you. "The erection
process is sensitive to stress," says Weston. "If you become distraught by
middle-age erection changes, the stress may contribute to erection
impairment."
That doesn't mean you shouldn't seek natural healing or
medical intervention for some help, though - millions of men do, and
they're enjoying the benefits of new breakthroughs in sexual health. In
fact, in addition to the aforementioned natural supplements and helps,
there's now even a formula to increase the volume of ejaculate, Volume
Pills, which many men say makes for a more powerful climax as well as a
more-impressive load.
But while all these resources are available, men may still
be facing another problem: their wives may also be struggling with
hormonal changes, stress, responsibility - all resulting in decreasing or
nonexistent sex drive and an unresponsive sexual system. Many women won't
or don't want to face these problems, so they just avoid sex entirely. The
loving and concerned man (that is, the man who would still very much like
to have wonderful sex) can help by introducing her to seductive products
that help her feel sexy, attractive and interested again. There are
lubricants on the market that work fine, but it's been shown that women do
much better with a topical cream that also contains ingredients to
increase sensations and intensify orgasm, such as
Vigorelle. Women are also reporting excellent results with a
supplement called
estraVil which increases sex drive and sexual response.
Sure, sexuality changes as you make your way from young
stud to older lovemeister. But whether you're enjoying the carnal
fireworks of youth or the more deliberate eroticism of sex after 60,
lovemaking can be enjoyable and fulfilling at any age. And consider this:
Women live longer than men, so demographics work in men's favor. At age
20, there are 105 men for every 100 women. But by age 65, for every 100
women there are only 88 men. In other words, stay fit and healthy, and you
just might live long enough to experience what the Beach Boys celebrated
in that old hit "Surf City" - two girls for every boy.
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