The Future of Sex Part 1
Sex is a lifelong marathon, not a one-night sprint. You
may not be putting a lot of thought into the distant future while you're
still trying to get something hot and heavy going this Saturday evening,
but time marches on whether you're paying attention to it or not. Luckily,
you're likely to have many decades of good sex ahead of you as you enter,
and even pass, your middle years. And you can improve your chances for a
lifetime of hot nights if you start taking care of yourself today.
Because it's hard to see far beyond today's bedroom
activity, guys often have misconceptions about how their libido will
change as they age, often believing that there will be less of it and that
they'll take less pleasure from it. How many times have you heard that men
peak sexually at age 18, and that it's all downhill from there? Well,
forget this ancient myth. It just isn't so.
Two things actually do peak at 18, says Michael Plaut,
Ph.D., associate professor of psychiatry at the University of Maryland
School of Medicine and president of the Society for Sex Therapy and
Research. One is the ridiculous ease and frequency with which a guy gets
an erection. In your teens, the slightest erotic sight or thought - even,
say, while you're flossing--is sure to get the pocket rocket jumping to
attention. Of course, this can be more embarrassing than helpful, since
the chance that a teen will get to use the case of wood that sprouts up in
homeroom is pretty small. Later in life, these instant erections will
become rare, and you may require a little fondling--or a lot of it-to
achieve potency. But so what? "Healthy men can raise erections at any
age," Plaut says. In fact, the beauty of the older male is the power of
control - more control over your own body. And advances in the study of
natural remedies now give men even more control in that area. There are
now a variety of options for achieving erections and enjoying sex more,
ranging from transdermal-delivery oils that penetrate into the penis
instantly, like
VigRX Oil, to a new patch that continually delivers
sexual-enhancement ingredients called
MaxiDerm, and even pills to increase the intensity and volume of
ejaculate -
VolumePills.
The other thing that hits its apex around 18 is erectile
firmness. Most healthy men don't even notice any loss of rigidity until
their 40s, or later. And even the somewhat less-firm erections of middle
age and beyond are still plenty turgid enough to enable great sex.
However, many men simply prefer the level of hardness of their youth, and
use pills like
VigRX to restore that potency.
During your 20s, one of the primary goals facing you is to
become comfortable with your own sexuality, learning whom you want to be
with, how often you want to make love, and what, exactly, you want to do
in bed. And during your late 20s, you face the task of learning how to be
comfortable with your lover's needs as well. This isn't easy. It involves
sometimes awkward conversations, bedroom accommodations and compromises,
and some amount of anxiety and frustration, which in themselves can
contribute to occasional sex problems. One great way to breach this
difficulty is to use a natural crème like
Vigorelle to explore and experiment - the touching with a new
tactile sensation may trigger responses and conversations about what she
likes that will help you to become a better lover to her. Vigorelle can be
ordered online. You may even want to show your lover the possibilities of
a female sexual drive booster like
estraVil, which again, opens up possibilities for better
understanding of each other's desires. Incidentally, this openness can
help you be sympathetic to the needs of her changing body over the years,
as well, for example, if her sex drive changes or diminishes over the
years, the
estraVil will help again, or if she wishes to pursue a supplement
like New Curves to add firmness and youthfulness to her bustline. Be
encouraging and helpful to her, but not critical.
As you get older, you'll no doubt have concerns and fears
about every aspect of your health and vitality diminishing. The importance
of good diet, exercise and healthy living can't be emphasized enough, and
you may want to investigate some alternative means to health preservation.
Many people have discovered health benefits of supplementation with
vitamins and herbs, for instance, or have added a supplement to
specifically address hormonal changes that contribute to aging -
Human Growth Hormone has been widely reported in the media as one
such new anti-aging therapy. Due to its prohibitively high costs,
HGH was once the remedy of choice for the wealthy only.
So relax, guys. You're not gaining momentum on some long
slide toward sexual oblivion. And while you can't help getting older every
year, if you maintain your healthful lifestyle and make the best of the
changes you'll eventually go through, you can have a terrific sex life
every step of the way.
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