Fetish/Concept
Dressing Up and Role Play

Admit it - haven't you ever wanted to play Naughty Dress Up? Pretend to be someone else or be with someone else? Act out some of your wilder fantasies? These are very common urges. But why should clothing or props be such a stimulating part of sexual fantasy?

Think of it this way: clothing can totally dictate how someone responds. The very same person will be treated completely differently in a full-on Harley Davidson leather getup, a police uniform, a business suit or a rumply pair of sweats. In the bedroom or wherever your fantasy will play out, your partner might be revealing far more skin in normal lingerie than, say, a fantasy outfit of leather corset, cowgirl chaps and a big ol' Stetson. But for quite a few men, the latter image is a much bigger turn on.

Not only does dress affect how your partner responds to you, but it definitely changes how you feel about yourself, your confidence and your sex appeal. For complex reasons, everyone has their own views about what is sexy or exciting, and what makes them feel powerful or irresistible or vulnerable - whatever frame of mind they'd like to achieve for their highest enjoyment. Clothing can put you in a particular mood and help you make the transition into the mysterious secret world of your personal pleasure. In other words, it takes you out of your normal, ordinary work/home life and transports you to a private place of your own making. Pretty exciting stuff.

Dress up and role play are incredible ways to explore your freakier side with a partner. Perhaps you won't even know what you'll like or get excited most by until you begin to try things. For most who are willing to open up and share such secret intimacies, they find that their relationship grows closer. Having such delicious secrets between you can be exciting even when you're not "in costume."

Anything goes in terms of fantasy, as long as you and your partner agree. Common themes for dress up and role play are variations on bondage, reversal of authority roles or mixtures of danger and escape. And many others simply have a fixation with a particular occupation - like military, nurses, cops, teachers, cowboys, cheerleaders, doctors, librarians, flight attendants, whatever - or a fixation with some type of apparel - leather, lycra, zippers, metal, ethereal lingerie, uniforms, stockings, boots, you name it. Many people love the idea of playing with shaving pubic hair partly or completely (and if this is a day-to-day preference of yours, you can augment shaving by reducing hair almost completely with a cool product called Ultra Hair Away. But aside from these more obvious themes, there may be some totally unique ideas in your psyche, things that may even be part of everyday life but with some freaky twist. Or perhaps there is something that always excites you that only YOU can explain to a trusted partner.

Talk openly with a partner about something that really turns you on. Ask him or her to reveal a similar fantasy. Ask each other very specific questions, like: where would you be in the fantasy? what would you be wearing when you did that? How hard would you do that? What would you use to do that? what would I be doing? and so on. If the fantasy involves a bondage or punishment element or something on the "darker" side, agree in advance on any limits or boundaries, plus choose a safe word, something that really means STOP. After all, your fantasy may be a punishment scene where you would like to play with the idea of begging for the partner to stop - but not really meaning that unless you say the previously chosen safe word.

The first few times you try a little something new, it may feel a bit awkward even though it's exciting. Keep VigRX Oil on hand to boost erection hardness even further. Use libido-enhancing products to drop inhibitions: VigRX and Semenax for him, or estraVil for her. Some people include the use of alcohol to "loosen up," but just be sure not to overdo it since alcohol interferes with sexual performance.

Most importantly, remember this is your private scene with your partner(s). Dress for whatever is planned, or whatever makes you feel the way you want to feel. You'll soon discover that clothing is so much more than just fabric!